Be adventurous Andy, get your good lady a flight out of the Phils to meet you. She feels special because you've taken her on holiday out of the countryand the best thing is you aren't in the Phil's so you don't have to worry about relatives and siblings scrounging off you every 5 minutes and expecting you to take them to all the places they can't afford to go to
I've got no plans whatsoever to go to the Phil's on my next 2 trips east