i thought it was time to give an update on my situation,
first i do thank you all for reading and the kind advice you all gave me on my post back in august
which i posted in The Girls & Boys S C Room,
i did listen to your advice but soon after
i was talking to her again and thought we had resolved any problem,
and so plans were once again put in place, though i trod cautiously,
anyhow at that time early august she told me she was back in phil,
since then untill now she was telling me of a weak signal,
and on 3 or 4 occasions said she had been in hospital, blood tranfusions ect
saying this was why she had not contacted me,
on these occasions i would get the odd yahoo message saying she just back from hospital,need to rest call you later,and saying she needs me there, but as before she never called back,
on 2 occasions i got txt messages suposedly from her brother saying she missis me and crys a lot, and she is just back from hospital,(obviously it was her posing as her bro)
she has a second facebook account supposedly for family which is private,
i have no access,i accidently came across and old message i sent there, while deleting old messages,
at this time i wasnt able to get intouch with her,and not heard from her for over a week,
the profile photo was visible her and a guy in embrassed,over the next 4 days the photo was changed 3 times,
on the 4th day there was a link showing which took me to one of her friends fb profile,and photo albums,
all the dates albums and fotos where dated and matched to the dates she told me she was ill and in hospital and of course saying she was in philippines,
the photos were of her on different occasions from june untill november,some with this guy,
and out having a real good time ,looking realy well and looking very much in love, still in israel,
i managed to confront her, i told her i knew everything, but still she was trying to lie her way through it,
and saying he was tempory and she thought when we was to be together in phill this january, i would never know,
she accepts shes done wrong and that i will never trust her or belive anything she says,
(exactly true i wont and without trust theres no relationship,)
she told me she was to travel home to phil today 14th and has tickets,but she is online invisible now,( thanks to visch for the link for invisible detecter,)
i dont need to detect her anymore
all these were cold cruel lies and the kind you would expect from someone who is obviously accustomed to liying,and to have me worry of her health believing she was very ill,
its over at last its over ,
Dont even answer her again,you owe her no replies,no response,no civility,absolutely nothing whatsoever 
Originally Posted by Tawi2
She made a big mistake saying she was visiting her sick mother back in Cebu but her emails had been sent from the UK ? 
happens for a reason and you might not know now, but oneday you'll look back and be 
