Sorry to read about your troubles Stewart, but I'm pleased you know the truth and have been brave enough to walk away. I was in the same position myself with my first Filipina g/f, I knew that she was cheating and lying and using me as a cash machine but I wasn't strong enough to walk away when I found out. I was at a particularly low point of my life that time, I was going through a messy divorce and I really couldn't have coped with any more heartache (as it goes she actually caused me even more heartache). In the end the games went on for another 6 months until I finally plucked up enough courage to say enough is enough and walked away.
It's never easy to walk away from someone you have feelings for, but time is a great healer. From what you've written, I know you've done the right thing. Keep your chin up my friend, we're all behind you on here![]()