Sorry to hear what happened Stuart, but like you say at least you know now, so won't keep wondering, worrying and going over things in your mind trying to work out what's going on. Like others say, you can make a fresh start now with a clearer mind knowing that all that hassle is out of the way. I know what it's like to be lied to and when you find out, it makes you wonder what else you were lied to about and you have no idea what was the truth and what was a lie. Also makes you wonder how much you really did know them. That's not the kind of a relationship that anyone wants and you feel so much different when you have someone that you can trust and know that hey are truthful.

I hope that you have a great Christmas and a much better coming year. Good luck!