My partner is the sister of a member on DIA, she herself would never have joined it ,she read my reply to her sister and liked it , while her sister didnt so you sent me her email address and ym, it took 3 months before we turned cams on ,and 6 months before we met....the rest is history (and herstory).
Incidentally the sister who was 23 on dia turned out to be 16, when i met my partner!,that could have been trouble
Nobody else i met on DIA ever got very far at all
P and G