10 Golden Rules For Staying Happy With The One You Love
1. First and foremost , love each other. Realize how lucky you are to be in love with someone who loves you .say “I love You “ often and in defferent ways. Surprice each other with gifs of praise to show your love. Remember that love grows in an atmosphere of freedom and trust, not from restraint and obligation . Do things to keep your love and romance new for granted ever. It’s such a blessing
2. Listen objectively to each other as you would to a friend ,Acceptance is a key to understanding and a buffer for tension and resentment .Don’t take things personally give each other the right to live different opinions the right to disagree.
You don’t want anyone to control your feelings so don’t try to own someone else is not even the feelings of the one you love.
3. Never stop treating each other as sweethearts, talk to each other as sweethearts. Do things that sweethearts do. Share the chores around the house. Work together in achieving your goals .Do things just to make the other one feel loved especially when he or she might be feeling a little down. Take pride in the way you look and your partner but never let external values have more importance than the internal feelings of your heart.
4. Take care of each other, go to the doctor with each other , Put the other one first, but don’t neglect your needs either. Do things that show that you’ve interested in your partner’s need and desires and problems.
5. Look each other for help. Don’t let your problems or concerns, get out of hard and make you go in opposite direction, Be joyful that you’ve each made a commitment to the other…through sickness or health poverty or wealth or wealth or whatever comes along you’re in this life together. Be thankful
6 .T alk about things together the way you would talk with a friend. Absolutely refuse to say anything negative about your, share your most important secrets and never betray the secret keep your own identity, but walk together as one. Don’t ever give up on your love
7. Settle the fact that you’ve made your choice and you’re no longer looking anyone else, Don’t flirt, think of the consequenses. Don’t consider it
8. Be in agreement about how your money spent, Big items should have the approved of both , Talk about how to manage your finances
9. When in doubt your actions ask yourself how you would want to be treated and then act accordingly, If you argued never go to sleep without asking the others forgiveness, even when you don’t feel like it or want to to be . Be faithful about this;
You won’t be sorry. Do what will make you both the happiest in the long run and be the best for your relationship
10. Have fun
Have you seen how much the heating bill is.....the exotic fruit bill....the fresh fish bill.....??? 
Not worth doing it, watch the footy instead 
