Simply,I hope things work out for your friend,I guess none of us have walked in her shoes and dont know the full story,sorry for her health and I hope things work out however she decides to handle the predicament she currently finds herself in,my initial response was triggered by memories of seeing a male friend cry,that was embarrassing for him and me at the time,guys dont cry right maligayang pasko simply,I understand some people overstaying because of utang na loob to those back home,doesnt make it right but I can understand the pressure,lets hope 2012 resolves the situation for the better.