Hi Toging ........ I can empathise with how you must be feeling not being with your children and family over Christmas, as well as being quite a new arrival in the UK. Try to look forward to the future when you will all be together again with your husband too. In the meantime, do enjoy your husband's undivided attention, I am sure that he must know how you are feeling at the moment and will want to make it up to you![]()