Welcome to our friendly forum Byron and whilst I can understand some of the comments already made here I also feel that you cant help who you fall in love with and we must all respect your honesty.
It would appear to me that like others have said you really need some professional help with your situation and would suggest that is the way you proceed.
Please be careful and be satisfied that your partner is as comitted to the relationship as you seem to be and that her intentions are honourable. You really have to go no further than this forum to find some unfortunate stories where this was not the case.
My sincere best wishes for the future.
