Maybe you have MUG written on your forehead
I find you quite insuling to those who have found real love through dating a site. Who are you to tell people 'how' they should meet?? or who they should fall in love with. All of us here are hard working people who save hard to see our wives and girlfriends overseas, we are not claiming benefits you know.
If you went to Phils 'splashing your cash' around, it's hardly surprisig you found the 'wrong' sort. Maybe take a leaf out of some of the lucky people here to have found the 'right' one.