Quote Originally Posted by zaxy View Post
True london I really dont understand why these guys give their gf family money lol I would not if it for hospital then yes I would but that would be the only reason.

My gf got a good job and she send her parents money but she said when she quits her job to be with me her sisters will be the ones to take care them but i made it clear i wont be sending them money or anything after we married im not sweet guy I told her that and she fine she soo sweet lol only wants me nothing else matter she said if she get job in uk she will send them money with her own money.
You make some wise points and are going about things in the right way

Some of these guys even try and justify their unwise behavior

"i am just helping her family out nothing wrong with that"
"in this part of the world its normal to support the relatives"

So why does it has to be all her way ? we dont engage in things like this in the uk

I am sure that if most of these guys were having a relationship with a uk based girl then they would not be so fast to throw their money at her relatives = i wonder why