you seem to say what you want to say and you are free to do that too, its strange that you keep saying its what you have heard or read, have you tried it yourself, a filipina girlfriend i mean, we all make our own choices weather they are right or wrong, so really whats it got to do with anyone or you, i enjoy reading your comments, you remind me of lots of ex friendsand some still friends and some work colleges a few years ago laughing and saying things about my new life, whos laughing now, i dont live with rose tinted glasses, its hard work making a marrige work, but its worth it in the end for everyone, hope you find happiness one day too