Quote Originally Posted by mhynne View Post
thanks joe.. thats really enlightening..

actually my mom will look after her when i go. but you know kids, im worried about that one day she might want to go back to her dad whilst im in the UK. hence if that happens, it will blow the sole responsibility thing to pieces. as stated in what u had me read earlier. if i go and leave her and she stays with my mom, all i need to prove is i still support her emotionally and financially which i think will be pretty easy if im prepared. but if she goes back to her dad then its gonna be definitely refused. since shes not really my SOLE responsibility anymore.

so basically all is well as of now whilst i file for my visa.. its just gonna be a single box to tick and a letter to be signed by my ex husband, if i read it right. I still want to be sure though that someday i can really get her to come. its more of giving her the freedom to go anywhere she wants that really counts for me. note, fiancee and i are contemplating on staying here in manila. maybe it is the best for our family and marriage. we only want to be together thats all.. if it cant be in the UK ill still be happy in manila. we are just soo exhausted with all these issues.. =(

as ive said, if you sort her visa out, once you have it, it might not matter who your daughter is with, my tepson was interviewed on his own, they wouldnt let his aunt in the interview, he was ok thou, as he was 17, he knows what to say or what not to say, but your daughter is young, iam sure she has to have an adult with her, but ive read cases on thai forum, where the adult has been refused and kids of 8 and 10 were interviewed on their own . maybe she will not get an interview, but you have to be prepared for it.

you shouldn't have a problem getting her a visa, maybe iam too negative, but like i said, ive not had one visa app rejected, ive always made sure, i couldnt supply any more info, and double checked everythnig.