I was just 'throwing it in' for discussion.

Come to think of it though, how could a Brit' be reasonably expected to settle in the Phils with his partner ?

For many, harder than bringing the Fiancee/wife here.

For one thing he won't be allowed to work, and will (last time I looked) have to have a fund of $75,000 to get a retirement visa.

Many of us probably WOULD prefer to disappear off over there if we COULD.