Quote Originally Posted by Iani View Post
Thank you for posting, sorry to hear she had to go through this though.

Maybe it's a very good reason to always chat to someone by phone even, before committing to a relationship, though perhaps if you aren't used to UK accents, you'd not recognise one?

It's always bloody Nigeria or africa isn't it

For all it's worth, it's extremely unlikely anyone from the UK would request you sent them money if you are in a relationship -it's just not, well this might sound old fashioned, but for a start, it just isn't the "done thing".

Edit, just thinking, even moreso if he was working for British Petroleum or otherwise contracted to work abroad, well I know enough people who do this, and they are all of them on very good money. There is no way he would be unable to get $400 because of being stranded at an airport. That's ludicrous, he'd have a bank card, or if he didn't - then he would have plenty of spare cash on him. If he was carrying neither - then run because you'd be dating a real fool!

Also everyone has bank accounts, and most likely credit cards, and if push came to shove in an emergency, our banks will usually sort something out.

It just gets me well angry this sort of thing, even the moreso as it's picking on a woman from a place where $400 means more than say to someone from my country
They chat on ym and facebook and also they talk on phone but my cousin was really convinced he was real. He speak good english but not authentic british accent.

Yes I know real british men are generous and won't initiate to ask money from girls esp from Phils.

Apparently he thought we are fool enough to believe he lost everything at the airport. Such a stupid scammer