Quote Originally Posted by nnomad View Post
maybe not,, but obviously i , or any body else, would know what VIP means in normal circumstances, but i thought that in this instance it may have meant something different,, and i have to enquire, a simple clarification is all that is needed, not some smartypans attitude,, still, i thanked him for his help, however bombastic,,,
C'mon nnomad,
If you feel you may want to continue to seek help from all the members here, then someone is gonna have to bite their lip. Whoever is right or wrong, or whoever started the 'thing' first makes no difference someone is gonna have to bite their lip. Maybe it's a better strategy if you could be the one coz I don't think I can convince everyone else at the moment.
What do you say? eh?
Call it quits and continue or risk that no-one will bother to reply anymore.

It's true there are plenty of forums out there in cyberspace, but this one has some very knowledgeable members, it also has a very large active membership (which is always a good thing for a variety of good experience)

Try to grow a slightly thicker skin for your cyberspace activity, and dont let your pride think everyone wants to attack you personally just because you erxpressing viewpoint was openly debated.

Anyway at least think about it and decide your best strategy, you can't continue to grow here and help yourself and your g/f if you alienate everyone you hope will eventually help and support you.

I'm sure you're a perfectly reasonable and generous bloke.