So ok, just in the offchance you are serious, he is genuine, but you are a little bit............not streetwise to know the right place to look, well you are on the wrong site

Try plentyoffish for relationships - it's a good dating site really.

And for bogus marriages, well there is one EU nationality notorious for allowing themselves to be used for this in exchange for money. I refuse to name them, why should I help someone considering this - but let's just say they aint asian