Many thanks for all your replies ...

Yes we are all very sad ...although it used a lot of our savings i did fly back to the Philippines on the 23rd December 2011 ..due to work commitments i could only stay there a few days..we could not bear to be apart for Christmas - New year - and it was our first wedding anniversary

Gosh the flights where so expensive!! i managed to book a flight on the 20th December !! ..i never booked early because we had all hoped my wife and son would be flying to me

although it was a very expensive few days in the Philippines i would not have changed it for the world ..we were so happy to be together again on dates that are so important to us.

We have been together for 3 years and married for 1 year ..i have visited the Philippines on 10 occasions, but we both always knew the day would come that we needed to part again // ..we just want the time to come that we never have to be apart again ...the wait is killing us.

I have just tried to phone, the advice i was given was to email ..UNLESS it was an emergency ..so i decided to email ...i will let you all know when i receive a reply ..

It was my birthday yesterday ..this has been my first Birthday in 3 years without being at my wifes and sons side ..kawawa

Again many thanks ..God be with you all ..