It's very complicated giving advice since we never know the real reason.But if I were in your shoes If the father ignore the child and neglecting us, and I am sure that he is the father,I'm gonna take the responsibility alone and find income just to give the best for my baby,it's so hard to ask money all the time you need,So time for you to think that you cannot expect from him. If he cannot be a father to your child now how much more in the next future...