Rosie, i have 5 kids and 2 grandkids, i see and he more on facebook and the phone from them so being anywhere in the world would not bother me as long as we can talk on the computer most weeks or months, we hope to rent the house out here so there is allways a way back, but to tell the truth once we leave here i dont want to come back, my family, bros and sisters they know my feelings about moving, yes i sall miss them and when the time comes for any of us to depart this world, when i can say a pray and have my thoughts of all the times we had together, thereal pain at this moment is insurance, i dont like the thought of paying hundreds of pounds even thousands just in case,thats just my thought,