You should not live with the past ."let the by gun be by gone.move on.women are not all the same,.when the first one give you so much head ache the second might be not.,You cannot buy the Happiness,when you make a mistake choosing a wife the second time might be a successful.In relationship trust is very important,Anyway you cannot bring your wealth in your grave. Share your blessings. If you are selfish to your wife and don't trust you just give her a reason to find trust to another. @ Steve go and stick with your Plans,if you found a true Love from a filipina they give you back the Love that you have given to us,not less but more than what you gave. Filipina's are hard working.So don't Worry for Tomorrow. "God feed the birds how much more His Children..God bless you Steve and Emma!!!