At the end of the day I wholeheartedly agree with that. And yet along the way I have noticed an almost magnet attraction amongst some filipinas to the idea of their sons / daughters having western features.But he is beautiful to us, he is healthy and strong and is perfect.... that is what really matters.
By the way I have noticed that my wife's skin has lightened considerably since she arrived in the UK 4 months ago. She never touches the "whitening" cream at all now.