Ssshhhhh...thank you for all who gave me views about my issues. It was just a basis for me to how the situation will be addressed. I followed what others here suggested to tell him what's bothering me...and I did by giving him a letter explaining everything thoroughly...I was so nervous about his reaction but in the end he approved to what I discussed in the letter.
Thank you for those who sympathise me, who understand me...and thank you for those who misjudge my attention of accessing an account. It's not about checking...it's about trust.
Each one of us may have different views on how relationship should work. I believe it would only depends on how the couple agreed to a situation...and on what kind of situation they can are in.
A lot of you didn't understand me because you didn't know the whole story...thanks anyway....your views did helped me a lot on how to act accordingly.