Ssshhhhh...thank you for all who gave me views about my issues. It was just a basis for me to how the situation will be addressed. I followed what others here suggested to tell him what's bothering me...and I did by giving him a letter explaining everything thoroughly...I was so nervous about his reaction but in the end he approved to what I discussed in the letter.
Thank you for those who sympathise me, who understand me...and thank you for those who misjudge my attention of accessing an account. It's not about checking...it's about trust.
Each one of us may have different views on how relationship should work. I believe it would only depends on how the couple agreed to a situation...and on what kind of situation they can are in.
A lot of you didn't understand me because you didn't know the whole story...thanks anyway....your views did helped me a lot on how to act accordingly.
I think writing it down was a great way of putting your feelings across.
Good luck to you both.![]()
Yep, that strategy can work very well. It's often recommended by professional counsellors and has a number of benefits.I think writing it down was a great way of putting your feelings across...
Well done for that idea April![]()
Thank you Graham and Terpe...
Yes, writing down is always my way of letting him know my feelings...there I can tell everything without pauses and without missing any point. It is really a great strategy. :-)
Sometimes it's better to leave a note and run.![]()
it should be the last thing you should worry, why?? he can give you different accounts to access and can also have multiple accounts of social networks and email accounts...not good to begin with trust!!
...why not try to google on recipes and cook something special for him ...a way to a mans heart is through his stomach![]()
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus
...why not try to google on recipes and cook something special for him ...a way to a mans heart is through his stomach
Well, I do that everyday. I always prepare everything ready for him everyday...clothes, breakfast,coffee, dinner...so on and so forth.
Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus
it should be the last thing you should worry, why?? he can give you different accounts to access and can also have multiple accounts of social networks and email accounts...not good begin with trust!!
Well, he's better than that. I know him...I know when there is something fishy in his actions...
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
well said sars.why not try to google on recipes and cook something special for him ...a way to a mans heart is through his stomach![]()
A place for everything, everything in its place.
I have a lock on my phone for the soul reason that if it is lost or stolen then the thief or the person who finds it can not use it. Yes, there are ways to unlock phones but by the time they crack it I will have reported the phone lost and I signal will be sent to the phone which blocks it and no good for anyone.
We both have access to each others Facebook and I often log on my fiancée account and chat with her friends and add pictures. Lol
She often logs on mine, I do not know if she posts and chats to my friends but to me, it is only cyberspace and not the real world, if I log on one day and find out I have come out and confessed I am gay or I have just married Hillary Clinton I would just laugh. The real world and being true and honest with my woman is all that really matters.
One last think, she does not have access to my bank account, come on, get real.![]()
I'm happy to share my overdraft with whoever wants it, and would very much appreciate someone being jealous of me and another woman....as long she was Angelina Jolie.![]()
You are just asking for trouble there Graham, she has 6 kids and more tattoos that a yakusa.
I must start buying a newspaper.
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