Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
When I was still in the Philippines, he played Xbox everyday for hours...but when I arrived here, he played it every Wednesday night for at least 1 hour and maximum of 4 hours. I am not familiar with what games he is playing because I don't bothered asking. It is more often about shooting and shooting...and honestly it is annoying me. :-) I am just considering him playing it because maybe it make him relax...or whatever feeling it gives him when he played it.

Well guys, I am pretty much surprised that in this generation, a lot of married men playing online games that is supposed to be for kids :-). So I'm gonna understand him for that knowing that there's more of you still playing it not only him.

But is it normal to play couple of hours with it?...need your views so I could act accordingly with this. Thank you. :-)
Hmm...I thought that might be the problem.

If it's affecting your relationship you need to speak to him about it. We all have hobbies, but 'obsessions' at the expense of our partner are something different. 2 hours a day doesn't sound to excessive, but if it's eating into your time together, or you feel 'shut out', then I foresee problems ahead.

Maybe give him some jobs to do around the house.

Oh, and the games aren't all aimed at kids (though a lot of young kids do play the supposedly adult ones), a lot are rated 18+ because of the violence and bad language.