Quote Originally Posted by Sailor_JT View Post
Interesting to see views some think in financial terms others only in terms of giving anything to make their partner happy no matter what it is, for me peanutz it dont matter if i got nothing left as long as she is happy because her happiness is "everything" to me.
I was not saying only about money...What I mean is, I can love someone and give everything, anything for him but not to the extent of leaving nothing for myself , to be able to love someone you need to love yourself first and I am not saying only about money, there is a lot of things involve. Growing up together in a relationship is a matter of give and take, respect and of course love. But giving a thing even if hurts you is a broad context to discuss. What are the things that you will give even if hurts you? I am sure that when you do the right thing and your partner thinks the same and both agrees with it I think there is more happiness in that than giving something that hurts you, only one side is content. As a couple we are responsible of each other happiness, because we are one.