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Hi everyone! Im 26yo Filipina. I just made this account now. And I need help for some information on how I can get closer to my boy living in UK. He is Polish working in Scotland. We have not met yet but we both are serious about our relationship as lover and he is planning to visit me soon.
Can I have any info please and what to do best so I could be in UK with him? Thank you very much.
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Im frustrated about this long distance love we have, I want to be with him so bad.. :(
And while reading from forums here, I just get jealous of couples who were successful with their quest for making their dreams come true. I want to be one of them as well.
So here I am patiently waiting for some answers.solutions to this. Any help or response will be appreciated.
Thank you.
Originally Posted by Korinai
Hello Korinai, welcome to the forum.
You will need to have plenty of patience.
The first step on your journey is to actually meet face to face and spend some time together.
The next step will be to decide if the two of your are compatible and ready for either marriage or civil partnership.
Once you are married or have arranged a civil partnership you would need to decide where you will live.
If you both decide that you would want to settle down within the EU, say UK for example then your husband will need to apply for the appropriate EEA family visa that allows you to join him here.
Hope that helps.
Thanks to your reply,appreciated much. It's my very first time to post in a blog like this. Am Im doing this for him and for myself..And Im kinda inspired with the love stories here with almost same situation as ours.
yeah, he is just about to renew his passport and then we gonna meet on October. Hope it goes will, coz I long dreamed of it. But anticipation is killing me, us actually :(
I got one more question, he asked me to research on a working visa, do you think its more effective than for example, fiancee or spouse visa?
We really dont have idea about this matter and its legality.
All we know is that we wanted to be together, just like any lovers. Thats why I am here.
Hi Korinai, and welcome to the forum.
I would urge you not to get too carried away with the love daydreams just yet.
Until the guy has made the effort to actually go to your country, has met you and your family and you've had enough time together to know whether or not you are compatible in REAL life, certainly join us here on the forums, but do understand that it has taken a lot of time, money and yes...true love for members here to form the happy relationships that they now enjoy.
Good luck...but slooooow down.
Hi, Korinai ...!
OK. But it's as well you're fully aware that falling in love is a gradual process. And the fact that your online boyfriend intends visiting you in the [fairly] near future is a good start.
I'm sure you ARE! There's nothing "bad" about wanting that "special someone" to be by your side... it's perfectly natural.
You have not said which nationality you have, so I guess Filipina.
Here is the UKBA webpage for working in the UK
Unfortunately, as a non-EEA national, your chance to secure permission to work in UK is almost zero.
Without knowing much more about the circumstances of you both it's really not possible to be specific with visa information.
As you bf is Polish I guess he does not yet have "settled status" which means in principle he will not be in a position to follow the normal Fiance(e) / Spouse settlement route
He would most likely need to follow the EEA Family Permit route. This effectively means you can join him as a Family Member. As I said in my earlier reply this really means the spouse or civil partner of an EEA national.
Korinai, you really are thinking much too far ahead at this stage of the relationship.
You have not even met so far.
There are many changes likely to be made before you are ready to cement the relationship by marriage.
The information I have indicated to you is the current status.
This may change.
Of course I'm not saying don't make plans, but just slow down.
It almost sounds as though you will do anything to get into the UK
Hi Korinai and welcome to the forum
As the others have said meet him first and see how it goes.If he feels the same way he will be prepared to travel and meet you. If the relationship is meant to be everything else will fall into place in good time.
One step at a time.
Salamat po...
but you were saying that we have to get marry here in the Philippines first after meet-ups?
<< by the way, Im so glad to join this forum, Im getting good information specially when you guys reply to me, and when I read some posts here. So happy to find this site yesterday
More than me, he make plans also. And Im happy to say that he includes me with it
but yes I am crazy in love maybe
He asked me to research for visas applicable to us, but all I have is the internet.
And yes, I will tell my bf all information I got here, for sure he will be glad to know it.
Thank you so much sir.
copy all sir
I got your point, I just have to pause, breathe and enjoy every single moment that we could have.
and I got account here,so I can always post whenever I got questions and confusions and anything to share
I love reading blogs here too, its inspiring to me and I will share this to my bf.
Salamat po
hehe true.
This is how he is affecting me. and I like it I know youve been in love, so you could understand how I feel right now
but yeah I will tell him this reply of yours so he would know as well.
thanks for the link and for the substancial information youve shared with me., I will go check it later before I go to work.
good morning UK
I got it Marco, thanks for finding time to reply me too.
Im enjoying this blog a lot, this could be part of my process to my dream
I will tell my bf all the advises I got here.
btw, Im seeing a happy couple with your avatar pic.
I cant wait to be my European guy too
Hiya there Korinai! Welcome to the FORUM!
I understand what you feel girl BUT the men above are RIGHT. Wait till you meet him first, see if you TWO are COMPATIBLE and start from there. It is better to know him first before everything else so calm down and take is very slow. Anyway, the forum is always open for your queries and I'm sure that people here will do the best they can to help each other out. Have a nice day Love!
I hear you, salamat.
I think we are just too excited to start new life together
But I know it's a long way, so I will just be more patient now.
And Im happy for the information Ive been getting here, and I will relay them to him later so he would know that Im much interested to find ways to be with him
Hello Korinai and welcome to the forum
As you have yet to meet I too would urge you not to make visa plans until after you have met and had a chance to sort your feelings for each other out.
I married a Filipina in 2008, I loved her very much but it was a one sided marriage all she wanted was the visa and air fare
I ended up divorcing her.
I hope all does work out for you both.
Mick.
>> sad story :'(Hello Korinai and welcome to the forum
As you have yet to meet I too would urge you not to make visa plans until after you have met and had a chance to sort your feelings for each other out.
I married a Filipina in 2008, I loved her very much but it was a one sided marriage all she wanted was the visa and air fare
I ended up divorcing her.
I hope all does work out for you both.
Mick.
It really depends on the person involved, but for my guy Im willing to risk.
I hope you too find your right woman, just be careful in picking
Welcome to the forum and you are always assured helpful and friendly advice!
Thank you..I do hope as well
People here are so nice
Thank you..I do hope as well
People here are so nice
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