hi Arthur, yes i agree totally heartless!!!

hi Joebloggs,,

1.i have never lived apart from my son..never..

2.how can i explain this is the sensitive part...,(i wish ud understand cos im not how english talks or explains) the father never had any contacts...my hubby stays here in philippines every 2 or 3 months he goes back here and lives with us for 4 months to 5 months...my son,,is always with us... then we applied for visas,i had to see the bio father to make arrangements so hed give a consent,,and being good persons,my husband and i allowed him to visit my son every saturday 10 am to 6 pm only and it was also written...we thought its just normal bcos we just dont want to be bad parents someday if my son asks??

can i share the refusal here? and the paper with the father's signature??? how can i post it on this forum if i can? so u will have a better idea ? ): pls help us..

sincerely yours--nivea