Well, I spent the best part of 15 years going backwards and forwards to the Phils with a wife and three children...Hong Kong too...chasing daydreams and spending LOTS of money.
When you have children over a certain age (4 or 5 years ?), suddenly THEIR lives and education become a major issue. UK or Philippines, the choice has to be made.
At that point you have to decide just how selfish you want to be.
