What do you think of a guy who is afraid to be married?

[Maria B]

if a man truly loves you he would marry you...no buts no ifs

absolutely

[Arthur Little]

Keep smiling chick!

... ... ... HOWZATT for starters?

[Vische]

in some respects , do we really need to know of their past, do we have a right to know? or is it just down to trust ?

Yeah i guess its respect i don't want anyone to force them to tell me things they don't want to reveal to me but the thing is i trust him with my past so can he even give me a hint of the things happened in his past even just a glimpse /summary hahaha, i guess he doesn't trust me much maybe he thinks im like his girl in the past. Well i guess i just have to trust God whatever his plan to me or to us

Mada mada dane, I think i just have to live a life on my own for awhile just wondering if it will be more interesting Thanks imaginee you really have so many insights on this

[Vische]

Well, these guys, how long was it before you started dropping hints about being married?
Maybe they are at a certain age where they think no way to marriage.
Maybe they are in their 30's, 40's etc, and are not married - and this just shows what sort of guys they are - guys who do not want to get married.

Maybe they have come out of a messy divorce, and just like someone who has been bitten by a dog isn't going to want to visit a kennel?

As for the thing about people living together happily for years, get married then split..........it's so strange. We all know people that has happened to, including my best friend. Madness!

yeah madness ... a guy who can't conquer his fear for his love i guess i don't earn it yet .... possible i didn't pass the standard

[Vische]

absolutely

Yeah i guess so Maria, thanks ...

thanks

[tone]

I know the example provided by Vische was about a guy on that point I'd say sometimes the cost of marriage may be an issue, but if you turned of the for a while you may quickly identify the nature of the love.

I was with my ex (un married) for 10 years, I wanted to marry but she didn't because over the last 5 years she became very successful, wealthy and saw what happened to me in my divorce. She didn't want to risk losing it to me if we split.
So we split or I decided I needed someone who would love and care for me as I would for them... I met Rina.

So it isn't just guys it's a bit of human nature, and it's definitely fear...

[grahamw48]

Erm, do you still have her address tone ?

[Iani]

yeah madness ... a guy who can't conquer his fear for his love i guess i don't earn it yet .... possible i didn't pass the standard

Don't say that, that makes me quite sad to hear you knock yourself if anything, it's his loss, never knock yourself

[grahamw48]

I was going to say that too.

Love and value yourself first.

[Vische]

I know the example provided by Vische was about a guy on that point I'd say sometimes the cost of marriage may be an issue, but if you turned of the for a while you may quickly identify the nature of the love.

I was with my ex (un married) for 10 years, I wanted to marry but she didn't because over the last 5 years she became very successful, wealthy and saw what happened to me in my divorce. She didn't want to risk losing it to me if we split.
So we split or I decided I needed someone who would love and care for me as I would for them... I met Rina.

So it isn't just guys it's a bit of human nature, and it's definitely fear...

Yeah i guess so yeah he also admit it that he still fear of going through another marriage

[Vische]

Don't say that, that makes me quite sad to hear you knock yourself if anything, it's his loss, never knock yourself

Yeah i needed that iani a hug waaaahhhh im still a crybaby hahahaha

[Vische]

I was going to say that too.

Love and value yourself first.

Thanks graham i appreciate that

[imagine]

Well, these guys, how long was it before you started dropping hints about being married?

its when she turns up on the first date in her wedding dress thats a put off

[grahamw48]

[sars_notd_virus]

What do you think of a guy who is afraid to be married?

Nothing wrong with erring on the side of caution

[Vische]

its when she turns up on the first date in her wedding dress thats a put off

good one Imagine