What do you think of a guy who is afraid to be married?

[Vische]

Already married ?

I had no SERIOUS desire to get married right up to meeting the ex when I was 38....and actually wish I'd remained single now.

Some people are happy being single.

You need to to do some serious talking (not nagging) and hopefully you'll receive an honest answer from the guy.
Each person will have their own reasons. We can only guess, which isn't really helpful.

Yeah i guess but since he doesn't divulge what really happen in his past is really hard to understand what he wants its like im reading a different book ...