Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
What if they had been a mass murderer or a rapist....or just STILL MARRIED ?

Secrets or an unknown past in a relationship are never a good starting point IMO.
well there is that,, but surely there must be certain things you might just prefer to keep to yourself that only you know,, where do you draw the line,
personally i dont think there should be anything hidden,, but isnt it down to choice , after all the past is past, its what is now that matters most