I was homesick everyday and missing my child very much when I went to the UK last year but it didnt reach to the point that I cried everyday because of loneliness.Originally Posted by grahamw48
I think you are worrying far too much about it.
Surely you don't want to jeopardise the chance of having her live here with her MOTHER do you ?
It is THAT serious.
What happens if you leave her behind and then YOU miss her so much that you are crying every day here...as happened with my ex-wife ?....THEN get turned down for a dependent visa because the UKBA decide that you no longer have sole responsibility for her ?
On the hand, if she does not like it here, at least she can go back to the Phils anytime.
It doesnt mean that I will leave her with my parents for a long time as we got plans ready after I get myself settled in UK (if ever). It is hard to take her with me cos I need to consider her emotions and feelings. It doesnt mean that you're the parent you need to decide all for your kids, for me, I always consider my 4 year olds thoughts and little decision.
I am still in the process of thinking whats best to do which you lot helped me by your own opinions and suggestions. I will assure you that your time on giving me advices wont be wasted.
Tnx very much!
