Terpe is correct take your child with you we got similar situation but in my case i come in the UK IN a spouse visa not fiancee but regardless of that it save you the hastle for the future of your child.
and to think its only one kid for you ..come to think i got 3 small children but i manage i supposed struggling at times but its all good..all myself.all day and night from waking in the morning and getting up to sch and getting them to sch..feeding etc..everything