Quote Originally Posted by Moy View Post
very true and well said Graham why give her a chance(her child) while she can..and when the child grows up at least she know the mother give the effort and tried her best to let her experience the life in other side of the world which again i understand that a child will always be fond of her siblings and grands.(PH), thats..exacty the same that was happen to me when my kids leave my parents/bother/relative in PH to come and live with me now in the UK..AND i see no probs at the monent they were so happy and settled..normal for kids to be a bit upset the first time they left ph and missing those person that they used to hang around ..thats why i dont understand why some people is having a hard time to decide about there children
Mother always gives effort to give their child the best but we have different stories and we should consider things around. I know fully what your trying to say and I am very thankful for the time you spent on writing about ur experiences and opinions but then we have different situations. I always consider my daughters feelings above all thats why its hard for me to decide for my child.