I wish you the best of luck in finding work (try your local Jobcentre) and new friends there, but please try to be patient rather than putting pressure and stress on your partner.
You haven't been here long yet and it would not be fair to talk about going back to the Phils so soon after he has gone to a great deal of expense, effort, stress and sacrifice in bringing you here.
Hopefully some of the other members will be able to recommend social groups or other members in your area where you can find some new friends and interests.
