Hi there brokenpieces!!! When i got here last oct. i was so bored too, I almost cry everyday bec. i miss my kids and my dogs...but as graham said i always consider the feeling of my husband (his effort and the expense)....while im waiting for my flr i tried to familiarized myself of how to find a job and what to do when its time.....i tried to keep myself busy too,just walking around places alone,going to shops and malls,and soon going to gym everyday and swimming...rather than sitting in ur house and made myself insane....when i finally got my flr i never stop looking for a job,and my husband told me that i should slow down bec. it will come if it comes but still it never stops me...after 10 days i got an offer for a part time job and i never had a second thought to grab it...i know that its better to have a full time job but its better thn nothing....so just be patient and try to amuse urself in different things.....gardening is best too,to pass ur time...![]()