Feeling so upset just now

[patrickm1978]

Today I am just back in the uk I was over for 2 weeks in Cebu with my wife rotsen it's 7 weeks now we are waiting and I pray to god we hear some goods news soon
Yesterday when I had to leave mactan airport I could not hold back the tears it hurts so much to leave my beautiful wife rotsen.
I really need to be with my wife so we can be happy again
We have so many plans we want to have a baby and be with one another forever
Please god help us

[lastlid]

I think BlessedLady got hers in 9 weeks. So maybe soon for you....

[daff 'O dill]

Everything has its own time and place. hope you will be with your wife very soon.

[sars_notd_virus]

We've all been through this,,..be strong and keep the love alive!!

[mjwoz]

just be strong!!!

[mickcant]

I hope yours is soon, but for some it has taken 3 months.
Stay strong and all will work out.
Mick.

[Eyes O'Donnell]

I know exactly how you feel. Stay positive and keep your faith. Hope you get some good news soon.

[Arthur Little]

Today I am just back in the uk I was over for 2 weeks in Cebu with my wife rotsen it's 7 weeks now we are waiting and I pray to god we hear some goods news soon
Yesterday when I had to leave mactan airport I could not hold back the tears it hurts so much to leave my beautiful wife rotsen.
I really need to be with my wife so we can be happy again
We have so many plans we want to have a baby and be with one another forever
Please god help us

Yes, ... it's hard to leave our loved ones behind ANYWHERE, Patrick - and so much worse when they're 7,000+ miles away. Most of us on this site know the feeling only too well!

I've mentioned *this before - several times on here - *that I got married in the Phils in December 2008, my wife applied for her Spousal Visa on January 20, 2009 and, being already retired, I twice extended my stay there ... hopeful of accompanying one another to the UK on February 19 (the date we'd put down with cautious optimism). Alas, it turned out to be a forlorn hope ... as the visa was approved a mere 4 days after I returned home again.

Anyway ... I shouldn't imagine you will wait much longer now.

[Terpe]

It's a sad and emotional time Patrick that's for sure.
Most of us here have experienced that feeling.

I hope the visa is approved soon. Stay positive and stay strong for each other.

[jlags90]

Yesterday when I had to leave mactan airport I could not hold back the tears it hurts so much to leave my beautiful wife rotsen.
I really need to be with my wife so we can be happy again
We have so many plans we want to have a baby and be with one another forever
Please god help us

We all share the same feeling so do not worry, you are not alone ... Nobody wants to live away from the one you love. It was a year ago when I last saw my fiance in person. I could still remember the day I accompanied him to Davao International Airport ... I did not get inside with him but just gave him a VERY quick hug, and "BYE".. I did not want him to see me cry I just did on my way home, in a bus...

You will be with her soon.. So do not be too upset. Enjoy the view of living alone

[zaxy]

I guess im lucky i can visit my gf 3 times a year lol so its not all that bad for me. I told my gf chances her living in uk very slim now so we need plan for our future thinking getting my degree and working in other country.

[Terpe]

I guess im lucky i can visit my gf 3 times a year lol so its not all that bad for me. I told my gf chances her living in uk very slim now so we need plan for our future thinking getting my degree and working in other country.

Well as it stands right now the 'dreaded' proposed changes have not been introduced.
Hopefully there may be a workaround or even some legal challenges that delay full implementation.

But I believe your thinking represents a good alternative strategy.
As it stands right now any EU country you decide to go to could be a big help visa -wise.
If you have language skills that will obviously help. I don't know if you have any yearnings for a specific country, but don't forget that Ireland still has some good opportunities and also English language.

Stay positive and stay strong

[zaxy]

ireland I shall see well first things first study hard get good job for now. My gf is a teacher in philippines teaching kids with disablilties she has a degree but i think her qualification mean nothing in uk and other countries thinking if she study here in uk and go university.

[GraceAdam]

Hi Patrick,

I talked to your wife and she said that she lodged her application last 20th of March, so more or less it's still on your 5th week of waiting! Just hang in there! we waited ours for 3 months and 7 days..that was freaking longgg! I know Rotsen's spousal visa will come very soon! Just pray and think positive!

Grace

[aronbabev]

HI Grace!!!