Pinay girlfriend desperate to get married.....

[joebloggs]

Thats like me saying '' All the men i know in uk want to move to the Philippines asap''
Oh hold on, its nothin like that at all because my statement is actually true

not sure about that for me, unless someone can make me an air-con t-shirt

[London_Manila]

I am not certain that this applies to all Filipinas......

I have never met one in the philippines that did not want away

[London_Manila]

Stop generalizing..I know lots of women and men who didn't even think of leaving the Philippines..that includes my sister and my father who has been refusing to leave since I was little..

Ok not all but i would still put it at around 99%

[London_Manila]

You use a big brush there buddy

It may seem like a big brush but in 10 years of visiting the philippines its what i have found

[London_Manila]

Thats like me saying '' All the men i know in uk want to move to the Philippines asap''
Oh hold on, its nothin like that at all because my statement is actually true

I like visiting the philippines but would never live there

[fred]

Thats like me saying '' All the men i know in uk want to move to the Philippines asap''
Oh hold on, its nothin like that at all because my statement is actually true

In my case your statement is VERY true!!

Originally Posted by London_Manila
all the pinoys i know here in London complain that life here is so hard and everything is so expensive
work that one out

Easy to work out because they are right!
Another reason I got the hell out of Dodge.

[Steve.r]

It may seem like a big brush but in 10 years of visiting the philippines its what i have found

So why do you keep on going back?? It appears you are only going there to play the field, which by your own statement you 'move on to the next one' if they ask for money. Sounds like you are looking in the wrong places. Bars or back allys are not going to find you a nice girls. But you can 'move on' right ?

[grahamw48]

10 years ?

The guy is only a learner.

Yes, I can well understand why anyone would want to leave London...and not just the Pinoys.

[London_Manila]

In my case your statement is VERY true!!

Easy to work out because they are right!
Another reason I got the hell out of Dodge.

Some pinoys find out that the west is not the paradise that they thought it would be

[London_Manila]

So why do you keep on going back?? It appears you are only going there to play the field, which by your own statement you 'move on to the next one' if they ask for money. Sounds like you are looking in the wrong places. Bars or back allys are not going to find you a nice girls. But you can 'move on' right ?

I go back because i like to indulge and enjoy myself, I am not looking for a lifetime partner or a wife
I had a wife from south east asia before and that lasted 10 years and i have no plans to go down that road again

[London_Manila]

10 years ?

The guy is only a learner.

Yes, I can well understand why anyone would want to leave London...and not just the Pinoys.

10 years in the philippines and over 30 years in south east asia

i have been there seen it and done it

[grahamw48]

10 years in the philippines and over 30 years in south east asia

i have been there seen it and done it

.
...Probably caught it too.

I've been going to Asia since I was 4 years old.
So what.


Best you stick to the sex tourist forums I reckon, where you can chat about Pattaya, Angeles City etc to your hearts content.
My last waste of words on you.

[zaxy]

london_manila may i ask why you join this forum as most the member that joined got a wife who if filo or enganged to one and just want advice about visa or any help at all but all u seem to be doing is telling not date a filopina as she only want a visa to be here.

I think u actually lonly and heart broken as your wife left you and still not got over it maybe you should get some help?

[London_Manila]

.
...Probably caught it too.

I've been going to Asia since I was 4 years old.
So what.


Best you stick to the sex tourist forums I reckon, where you can chat about Pattaya, Angeles City etc to your hearts content.
My last waste of words on you.

Oh dear it looks like you have reverted to making assumptions again !

I dont pay for sex and i have no intrest in places like pattaya or angeles city

[imagine]

10 years in the philippines and over 30 years in south east asia

i have been there seen it and done it

your sums dont add up or you lie about your age

[London_Manila]

london_manila may i ask why you join this forum as most the member that joined got a wife who if filo or enganged to one and just want advice about visa or any help at all but all u seem to be doing is telling not date a filopina as she only want a visa to be here.

I think u actually lonly and heart broken as your wife left you and still not got over it maybe you should get some help?

I spend a lot of time in the philippines and i am intrested in anything to do with the philippines

surely this forum welcomes single guys aswell

heart broken far from it i was divorced over 10 years ago and actually enjoy the freedom i have now

[London_Manila]

Oh really so how old am i then ?

[imagine]

Oh really so how old am i then ?

my mistake i read ur 39 posts thinking it was your age

[HACHE]

Ah well, there are a few posts on this thread...maybe a bit "off-topic" though..

Anyway, update of my situation. Alot of silly arguments...if I don't text her the right thing, if I don't reciprocate the way she expects..all these crazy accusations that I am "pushing her away".....it's times like this I question "is this the way of the future?"....is she gona give me a hard time like this out of absolutely nothing, just barely trivial stuff and its not the first.
I think she's panicking, know she's running out of time, and perhaps frustrated that I am not giving her "direction" in our relationship....What I keep saying, now I am fed of of petty arguments about stupid things she should never be bothered about...and how on earth am I gona make a long term plan based on this rubbish going on??? I think I am treating ( with a hell of alot of patience) this like a relationship here, where I spend time trying to see if there's potential, but this isn't on her priorities, it doesn't matter, she just "needs" to stay....

[raynaputi]

Hi Hache..well she clearly says the real intent of wanting to marry you..her need to stay here in the UK.. You know what you gotta do..

[HACHE]

Hi Hache..well she clearly says the real intent of wanting to marry you..her need to stay here in the UK.. You know what you gotta do..

And I'm thinking you don't mean I should marry her...
hehe

[grahamw48]

What's the rush...as far as you're concerned anyway ?

[HACHE]

Told her the other week no one ever wants to be pushed or pressured, and I'll only ever do that if it was right me me, not just convenient for her. And these silly petty arguments make me think twice about the long term viability anyway.....

[Dedworth]

Told her the other week no one ever wants to be pushed or pressured, and I'll only ever do that if it was right me me, not just convenient for her. And these silly petty arguments make me think twice about the long term viability anyway.....

She needs to shape up or ship out

[London_Manila]

Ah well, there are a few posts on this thread...maybe a bit "off-topic" though..

Anyway, update of my situation. Alot of silly arguments...if I don't text her the right thing, if I don't reciprocate the way she expects..all these crazy accusations that I am "pushing her away".....it's times like this I question "is this the way of the future?"....is she gona give me a hard time like this out of absolutely nothing, just barely trivial stuff and its not the first.
I think she's panicking, know she's running out of time, and perhaps frustrated that I am not giving her "direction" in our relationship....What I keep saying, now I am fed of of petty arguments about stupid things she should never be bothered about...and how on earth am I gona make a long term plan based on this rubbish going on??? I think I am treating ( with a hell of alot of patience) this like a relationship here, where I spend time trying to see if there's potential, but this isn't on her priorities, it doesn't matter, she just "needs" to stay....

She is only playing up now because you are not playing ball with her

What with tougher immigration rules about to kick in for domestic workers in the uk then there will plenty more of this to come.
They cant stay here legally anymore and thats where you come in

She is demanding and hassle now so the last thing you want to do in marry her

Dump her now and let her find another victim

[HACHE]

She is only playing up now because you are not playing ball with her

What with tougher immigration rules about to kick in for domestic workers in the uk then there will plenty more of this to come.
They cant stay here legally anymore and thats where you come in

She is demanding and hassle now so the last thing you want to do in marry her

Dump her now and let her find another victim

It's a fair point. I fell for her, and I guess my patience in the early days just permitted her to become like this, but if its her true colours I am glad I know now....

[RickyR]

Everytime I see a post by LondonManila, it reminds me of these fat sweaty balding bitter men that you find in the skanky expat bars in the Philippines. You come across the same comments day in day out, by these guys sat at the bar staring down the end of the beer bottle and hanging out with bar girls and young girls and they think that these girls represent the country. The good ones wouldn't come near people like him.
A reason why I very rarely stepped in an expat bar whilst living in the Philippines.
There is another forum called LINC where you'll find some like minded people.

[Dedworth]

Everytime I see a post by LondonManila, it reminds me of these fat sweaty balding bitter men that you find in the skanky expat bars in the Philippines. You come across the same comments day in day out, by these guys sat at the bar staring down the end of the beer bottle and hanging out with bar girls and young girls and they think that these girls represent the country. The good ones wouldn't come near people like him.
A reason why I very rarely stepped in an expat bar whilst living in the Philippines.
There is another forum called LINC where you'll find some like minded people.

Well said Ricky

[grahamw48]

Totally agree.

Those dens of iniquity should be restricted to the young slim handsome and cheerful types.

[London_Manila]

Everytime I see a post by LondonManila, it reminds me of these fat sweaty balding bitter men that you find in the skanky expat bars in the Philippines. You come across the same comments day in day out, by these guys sat at the bar staring down the end of the beer bottle and hanging out with bar girls and young girls and they think that these girls represent the country. The good ones wouldn't come near people like him.
A reason why I very rarely stepped in an expat bar whilst living in the Philippines.
There is another forum called LINC where you'll find some like minded people.

Excuse me

I am not fat have a full head of hair and i dont drink any alcohol tee total in fact

I do not frequent expat go-go bars or any other kind of bars in the philippines

I dont remember saying or implying that all the woman in the philippines were pokpoks

For your information the last lady i dated in the philippines is a doctor and we remain good friends and we always
go out for something to eat when i am in makati

omg and some people accuse me of making assumptions