Quote Originally Posted by HACHE View Post
Ah well, there are a few posts on this thread...maybe a bit "off-topic" though..

Anyway, update of my situation. Alot of silly arguments...if I don't text her the right thing, if I don't reciprocate the way she expects..all these crazy accusations that I am "pushing her away".....it's times like this I question "is this the way of the future?"....is she gona give me a hard time like this out of absolutely nothing, just barely trivial stuff and its not the first.
I think she's panicking, know she's running out of time, and perhaps frustrated that I am not giving her "direction" in our relationship....What I keep saying, now I am fed of of petty arguments about stupid things she should never be bothered about...and how on earth am I gona make a long term plan based on this rubbish going on??? I think I am treating ( with a hell of alot of patience) this like a relationship here, where I spend time trying to see if there's potential, but this isn't on her priorities, it doesn't matter, she just "needs" to stay....
She is only playing up now because you are not playing ball with her

What with tougher immigration rules about to kick in for domestic workers in the uk then there will plenty more of this to come.
They cant stay here legally anymore and thats where you come in

She is demanding and hassle now so the last thing you want to do in marry her

Dump her now and let her find another victim