Fantastic post Terpe, thanks very much.
Agree with what you say. I guess there are things we think and feel, but sometimes its good to here it from others too.
Its very true, I want her to focus on sorting the short term, then we have medium term( and time) to see if we can go further. Trying to jump over this, or bypass this stage is wrong, not wise at all.. To dismiss my reluctance to commit is a sign that we are a) poles apart, b) she doesnt respect the way I approach things....
And this I cant dismiss the red flag, of the motivation for pushing for it, of course
Thanks
