it is stressful just thinking about submitting our application, i think at the end of the day my husband can always come home with me back to the philippines im just worried he might not be able to adjust to the lifestyle...either way we do not want to get separated just because we are of different race, it is sad that we need to go through a whole process like this and put our future in the hands of people we don't even know and who don't even know us either!