If he wants to be with you he will chase YOU.
I can fully sympathise with you though, because from 16 years of age I chased women I couldn't have for YEARS on end...romantic unrealistic fool that I was.That's mainly why I didn't marry until 41 years of age. What a waste of life and emotion !
I urge you not to get into the same habit.
Get out and circulate. Give OTHER people a chance, and don't become trapped in a romantic fantasy world.
Yes, some of us almost thrive on it, but really it is a self-destructive state of mind.
(Only wish could practice what I preach).
edit to add:
I was tempted to put some soppy romantic song on for you, but that is NOT what is needed. REALITY is.
Move on dear and LOVE YOURSELF more than OTHERS.. that's when u can find great love.. enjoy life... i can relate.. 
