If he wants to be with you he will chase YOU.

I can fully sympathise with you though, because from 16 years of age I chased women I couldn't have for YEARS on end...romantic unrealistic fool that I was.That's mainly why I didn't marry until 41 years of age. What a waste of life and emotion !

I urge you not to get into the same habit.

Get out and circulate. Give OTHER people a chance, and don't become trapped in a romantic fantasy world.

Yes, some of us almost thrive on it, but really it is a self-destructive state of mind.

(Only wish could practice what I preach ).

edit to add:

I was tempted to put some soppy romantic song on for you, but that is NOT what is needed. REALITY is.