Don't put so much pressure on yourself about something that hasn't yet happened !
Something I learned a looong time ago.
Perhaps your Fiancee could be more flexible about marriage arrangements too.
It's all very well her realising her dreams, but there are two people in the relationship...and I can guess who will be expected to cough up the most money.
Have you let her know about your true financial circumstances ?
As for your 14 year-old daughter, well there I can fully empathise with you.
Blood is thicker than water and no relationship can ever compare with the one you have with your child.
My boy has come first in my priorities since the day he was born.
I suggest you get a grip on your emotions, give it a little more time to see how the visa regs etc pan out, and above all, don't be in a rush.
What IS the rush ?
