Marry her there She deserves and also she may not see her family for quite a while after that. Yes far cheaper but the flights will make up for a cheaper wedding I worked it it will cost me £8000 next year and most of that is flights 3 times and her flights back plus internal flights, spouse Visa, CENOMA. CNI, wedding, Honeymoon, 30 days there, 1 week in March there, Rings, etc .... worth every penny!