I think you have to be working here for 2 years before you can claim any health benefits! Also you have to be married for 2 years before you can permenantly stay here in England. Your Husband signed up to provide all financial support for you in the Fiancee Visa and letter he would have provided you for your Fiancee Visa. Just search the forum and you will find most of the answers you need.
Take Voluntary work in a Charity shop or similar to get a good referance, find out how to write a good CV Curriculum Vitae about yourself.
Maybe I am wrong but I am sure others in here will correct me if I am!
My Anilyn will have to find a job, and she is happy to do so, I suspect the wages she will expect will be lower than she thinks, but that is no different to most UK residents living here. Try buying or renting a house on one wage, it is difficult.
There are plenty of Barrio Festivals scattered across the country, reasearch the Internet and you will find a place to meet people from your own country and culture.
Good Luck!!
Ingat
Paul