It has always seemed inhumane to me, when a family is forced to live apart for financial reasons - as in
your case - simply because the partner who would normally be the main breadwinner [your husband] is incapacitated to the extent that he can neither work nor be considered physically capable of raising a child on his own.
I note, from your profile page, that you're a dentist by profession and, in an ideal world, a person with credentials such as yours, would be regarded as an asset to
ANY country ... were it not for the fact that the General Dental Council in the UK is unlikely to recognise these as being of a standard equivalent to that required in order to register as a practitioner here.
, Alub ... but seems to
me, your only
viable option is to return to the Philippines and apply for a Spousal Visa, taking care to include a covering letter -explaining your circumstances in full - to accompany your application.
Meanwhile,
to this friendly forum and
stay tuned to the possibilities of receiving any alternative solutions others might offer.