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[Korinai]

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Im frustrated about this long distance love we have, I want to be with him so bad.. :(
And while reading from forums here, I just get jealous of couples who were successful with their quest for making their dreams come true. I want to be one of them as well.
So here I am patiently waiting for some answers.solutions to this. Any help or response will be appreciated.
Thank you.

[Terpe]

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Im frustrated about this long distance love we have, I want to be with him so bad.. :(
And while reading from forums here, I just get jealous of couples who were successful with their quest for making their dreams come true. I want to be one of them as well.
So here I am patiently waiting for some answers.solutions to this. Any help or response will be appreciated.
Thank you.

Hello Korinai, welcome to the forum.

You will need to have plenty of patience.
The first step on your journey is to actually meet face to face and spend some time together.
The next step will be to decide if the two of your are compatible and ready for either marriage or civil partnership.

Once you are married or have arranged a civil partnership you would need to decide where you will live.
If you both decide that you would want to settle down within the EU, say UK for example then your husband will need to apply for the appropriate EEA family visa that allows you to join him here.

Hope that helps.

[Korinai]

Thanks to your reply,appreciated much. It's my very first time to post in a blog like this. Am Im doing this for him and for myself..And Im kinda inspired with the love stories here with almost same situation as ours.
yeah, he is just about to renew his passport and then we gonna meet on October. Hope it goes will, coz I long dreamed of it. But anticipation is killing me, us actually :(
I got one more question, he asked me to research on a working visa, do you think its more effective than for example, fiancee or spouse visa?
We really dont have idea about this matter and its legality.
All we know is that we wanted to be together, just like any lovers. Thats why I am here.

[Terpe]

................ he asked me to research on a working visa, do you think its more effective than for example, fiancee or spouse visa?

You have not said which nationality you have, so I guess Filipina.
Here is the UKBA webpage for working in the UK

Unfortunately, as a non-EEA national, your chance to secure permission to work in UK is almost zero.

Without knowing much more about the circumstances of you both it's really not possible to be specific with visa information.

As you bf is Polish I guess he does not yet have "settled status" which means in principle he will not be in a position to follow the normal Fiance(e) / Spouse settlement route
He would most likely need to follow the EEA Family Permit route. This effectively means you can join him as a Family Member. As I said in my earlier reply this really means the spouse or civil partner of an EEA national.

Korinai, you really are thinking much too far ahead at this stage of the relationship.
You have not even met so far.

There are many changes likely to be made before you are ready to cement the relationship by marriage.
The information I have indicated to you is the current status.
This may change.

Of course I'm not saying don't make plans, but just slow down.

It almost sounds as though you will do anything to get into the UK

[Korinai]

hehe true.
This is how he is affecting me. and I like it I know youve been in love, so you could understand how I feel right now
but yeah I will tell him this reply of yours so he would know as well.
thanks for the link and for the substancial information youve shared with me., I will go check it later before I go to work.

good morning UK

[Korinai]

Salamat po...
but you were saying that we have to get marry here in the Philippines first after meet-ups?

<< by the way, Im so glad to join this forum, Im getting good information specially when you guys reply to me, and when I read some posts here. So happy to find this site yesterday

[Arthur Little]

Hi everyone! Im 26yo Filipina. I just made this account now.

Hi, Korinai ... !

And I need help for some information on how I can get closer to my boy living in UK. He is Polish working in Scotland. We have not met yet but we both are serious about our relationship as lover and he is planning to visit me soon.

OK. But it's as well you're fully aware that falling in love is a gradual process. And the fact that your online boyfriend intends visiting you in the [fairly] near future is a good start.

Im frustrated about this long distance love we have, I want to be with him so bad.

I'm sure you ARE! There's nothing "bad" about wanting that "special someone" to be by your side ... it's perfectly natural. Moreover, once you get to know - and feel comfortable with - that person, everything else will, eventually, fit into place.

[Korinai]

copy all sir
I got your point, I just have to pause, breathe and enjoy every single moment that we could have.
and I got account here,so I can always post whenever I got questions and confusions and anything to share
I love reading blogs here too, its inspiring to me and I will share this to my bf.
Salamat po