A right mess

[Peanutz]

N.B.

Once you start a legal measures know that you will cause trouble to the family of your girlfriends husband and to the midwife and whoever is involve in that matters. If your girlfriend has told you the truth then she can prove it with legal help and be sure that she is ready to go through all this trouble that she will cause to her ex-husband and family.

[andypaul]

N.B.

Once you start a legal measures know that you will cause trouble to the family of your girlfriends husband and to the midwife and whoever is involve in that matters. If your girlfriend has told you the truth then she can prove it with legal help and be sure that she is ready to go through all this trouble that she will cause to her ex-husband and family.

A very good point i have read of many cases where a person who suddenly gives in to family pressure or just doesn't need the hassle.

You also need to clarify every point as i have had experienced times when suddenly a little point which was forgotten to be mentioned but had huge implications is mentioned in passing.

[Ady]

Really you are a big help. It seems the midwife was fooled from what I can gather - but without knowing the procedures for Child registration I cannot be sure exactly what happened.

I have been with my gf for 2 years - a little more, and see her most days in the cam so I am pretty sure she was not pregnant in that time.

The baby was born 8 months ago - and registered Feb 23.

Just 2 weeks ago I was with my gf in Hong Kong - but we come home to this

We will seek an annulment, and my gf just wants her name cleared from their illegal acts. At the moment her husband says he will not contest the annulment - but maybe their stance will change if we seek legal advice. However, I want her name cleared before starting the annulment process - because these things can be lengthy.

No offence taken Peanutz - and I am most grateful for your efforts in replying. Thanks to you all.

[tiger@tigress]

Really you are a big help. It seems the midwife was fooled from what I can gather - but without knowing the procedures for Child registration I cannot be sure exactly what happened.
I have been with my gf for 2 years - a little more, and see her most days in the cam so I am pretty sure she was not pregnant in that time.
The baby was born 8 months ago - and registered Feb 23.
Just 2 weeks ago I was with my gf in Hong Kong - but we come home to this
We will seek an annulment, and my gf just wants her name cleared from their illegal acts. At the moment her husband says he will not contest the annulment - but maybe their stance will change if we seek legal advice. However, I want her name cleared before starting the annulment process - because these things can be lengthy.
No offence taken Peanutz - and I am most grateful for your efforts in replying. Thanks to you all.

it will be alot easier if the ex will not show up in the court! thats if

[eljean]

have you ever met your gf in person yet?you never mention though...

[andypaul]

have you ever met your gf in person yet?you never mention though...

Just 2 weeks ago I was with my gf in Hong Kong - but we come home to this

[Ady]

Hi Eljean.

I met my gf finally last June. Because she lives in Davao - and we all know the situation in Mindanao - I was reluctant to go there. Mainly my family concerns, and also because I have little experience in travelling. I tried to get her here for 3-4 weeks - but our visitor visa was refused last September.

We met playing dominoes in Yahoo games in September 2004 - and the relationship developed in April 2005. I speak to her daily in the net, by cam, by phone. Even we chat everyday - we also mail each other everyday. And that has been the case for 3 years (friendship and more). We have arguments, siyempre, but I see her everyday.

Thanks a lot to all for your advice so far. My gf will be seeing a lawyer on Monday - her kuya will attend with her. I have asked her to speak about the birth certificate and also the annulment.

I know it is a complicated situation - and I know some of you may think that my gf is pulling wool over my eyes. However I am 100% sure she has not been pregnant in the last 3 years otherwise I would notice in the camera. And, having met her in person and being a good judge of character, I think she is telling the truth about this.

Thanks again

Ady.